Ten reflexes, and a second round if it's close. No birth details, no astrology — just honesty.
The shadow isn't your dark side in the villain sense — it's everything you had to disown to stay safe and loved: the needs, angers, and softnesses that weren't welcome in the house you grew up in. Disowned doesn't mean gone; it means operating without supervision.
It leaks through four reliable doors: what irritates you in others, what you do with a compliment, the role you always end up in, and what your mind does at 2am. The questions below stand at those doors.
Answer with your first reflex, not your best self. Tap one answer per question; if a second one is also true of you, tap it too — it counts as half. If two styles finish neck and neck, a short second round of head-to-heads settles it. A mirror, not a diagnosis.